I need advice!!!

[katwoman81]

I need to track my partners mobile phone because I suspect he is being unfaithful. However, he always has his phone about his person and hides it at night so I cant set it up to agree to "tracking". Is there any other way I can do this without him knowing (that doesn't cost an arm and a leg)?

[Sugar&spice]

Yes, they do say communication is the key

have it out with him, surely you can tell if he is lying or not. Ask to see his phone and if he refuses then hey, there has to be something going on.

Frankly though, i do have to agree with some of the others, if you're in this mind-set, is this relationship actually working??...

[jkkerr]

Hi Kat

I've been in a very similar situation per my previous posts...all I can say is I hope you find the strength to talk to your partner.

I checked my ex's phone and kept an eye on what he was doing online - I found dodgy things time and time again but it took me the best part of two years to get out of the relationship.

It was heartbreaking but I can honestly say that I am glad now - no more of that sick feeling in my stomach. (It's called gut instinct for a reason...)

Good luck

x

[ANGELEYES07]

the fact that he's hiding his phone is suspect. he must be hiding something...so if i were you, i would get bold and when he's in a deep sleep search for the phone find it and check for wild text's or phone calls then add the tracker if you can all at one time if not then do it the next night because you have to watch out for your self because if he is cheating its not something to play around with thats your life no time for secrets to many diseases going around especially now a days.

[Whoever]

It doesn't sound as if you even need to go to the hassle and expense of tracking your partner's mobile phone. He's already given you all the evidence you need by not letting his phone out of his possession during the day and hiding it at night? Surely that suggests to you that he has got something to hide? If you really don't trust him your relationship looks pretty doomed to me. Why not ask him why outright who is having an affair with? But have your exit strategy well planned first.

[Quizmonkey]

Consider the relationship over already - as there is no communication in it and that's what relationships are based on. Whether he's being unfaithful or not, there's nothing here worth salvaging: if he's unfaithful, it's over; if he's not, the fact that you're doing sneaky distrustful sh1t behind his back means it's over anyway. I think you need to think long and hard what relationships are all about and what a so-called partner should mean to you

[ftj001]

Sorry katwoman81. If he is doing all this **** with his phone. He is chesting on you trust me! This is textbook for a cheater. I caught my husband cheating the same way. We were together since high school and I never thought that he would hurt me in that way. I can't tell u what to do but I can tell u that this sounds awfully familiar and I would hate for you to go through what I'm going through now!

[ftj001]

And talking to him is not going to help. He is just going to tell u what you want to here, not the truth.