help me!!

[supermode21]

well i want to write something to the one that ive loved n still luves, but cant xpress my feelings in words!! she died 1 year ago n she still lives inside me, in my heart but want to write a letter!! please help me!! thnxx

[crisgal]

If no-one is ever going to see it, it doesn't matter what you put in the letter.
Just write and write and write - single words, gobbeldy gook, it's the process that matters, not the end product.
I've just done the same thing and it REALLY helped.
x x x

[andy-hughes]

Absolutely right crfisgal.

supermode 21, you are epxpressing your love and grief, not entering an essay competition.

The process is about healing for you, so you say what you feel, how ever it comes out, and when you feel you have said what you want, you can stop.

Why not keep a copy - seal it in an envelope, and put it in the back of a drawer. Knowing it is there will help, and if you want to rreturn to it in years to come, when the wounds are less raw, you may find comfort from it.

Hope this helps.

[happybaggy]

I think the two answers you already have are very good advice. If writing is a problem then why not record a few words? Hope this helps you supermode21

[Mortartube]

Another method often suggested by bereavement counsellors, is to write the letter ( as stated it doesn't matter what you wite. Just write what you feel), then burn the letter and scatter the ashes of the letter somewhere that was special to both of you.

[supermode21]

yep u all r rite in watever u say, i do agree wid u, but its just zat she was always telling me to write her a letter, its been seven years since we were together, n she was always telling me to write a letter to her so that she wud always keep it wid her..but unfortunately god needed her n left me alone here..i always feel zat i didnt do anything zat she asked me 2 do..zats y i want to write her a letter n keep it on her grave when i will go to put flowers on her birthday...but anyway thnx for all ze answers ive got, they were all meaningful....