Pregnancy

[adekoyaadeni]

i had a one night stand with someone last year August before i went on holiday. i was very carefully,. i also slept with my partrner before and after my holiday. i am now pregnant with my 3rd child, i am so afraid to tell him about this affair even our relationship was just ok.
I don't no what to do, beacause if i told him and the child his he's can make things difficult for me what can i do.

[bimbo123456]

You don't say if you used protection with your partner. It is possible to do DNA testing before the baby is born. Speak to your doctor. You would need to get a sample from your partner though. Sometimes it is better to let sleeping dogs lie. Unless there is a difference in skin colour! If the mystery man was black or asian and you and your partner are white.......

[bednobs]

surely if you slept with someone in august, unless you are nine months pregnant, it cant possibly be his as its now 9 + months later

[Le Chat]

Did you have an 'affair' with this other man (as you say) which would suggest more than one night, or was it just a one night stand?(As you also said!!)

[sambro]

what did you have a one night stand for?whats the matter with you?

[popsickle]

TELL UR PARTNER...
if u loved him you wouldnt' have done that so if he dumps you...
well, you deserve it.
don't be such a ho

[netibiza]

This, of course happened a lot in the past, before dna and there's many a father who doesn't know he's rearing another's child. All depends on you and your conscience. If you keep it quiet you may be all right, but if the child ever needs serious medical attention then the truth may come out, although I do believe that many doctors will keep it quiet unless absolutely necessary. You will be living on tenterhooks all the time. The ball's in your court and only you know what you can do.

[10071969]

people say honesty is the best policy? but i dont always think so , say nothing you could ruining everthing ? its your body you do what u feel and do not do anything you migh t
regret i am single mum its hard but i no ive done it all my self yes i have problems but who doesnt i got to girls they are good kids and one entered a beauty contest and came 2 nd she in liverpool next week for the final ,so just u think 1st before u say or do anything

[Ice.Maiden]

Well by now, you must be very close to having this baby, and the doctor will've worked out a due-date. From that, you can work back and get a good idea of who the father is. You say you were very careful - so I assume that the fling wouldnt've resulted in a pregnancy? Are you sure that it's not just your own guilt that's making you wonder about things at this late stage?