help me!!!!

[garner910]

if a guy u have been with for four years tells u he doesnt love u n never will but yet cares about u loads will ride for 2 hours on a bike to come n see u every night and shows u warmth and affection n even got battered with a hammer to protect u and when i dont see him were on the phone for hours and opens up to u but wont any1 else, what does it mean? does he love me really but wont admit it i am not with him now as he stood me up on my birthday in april but i just cant let him go as i think he does love me but is in denial or maybe it just wishful thinkin n he is a lot older than me he is 36 and i am 22 what do u think xxx

[Sasha13]

If he says he doesn't love you and never will then he doesn't love you and never will. Simple as that. There are no mixed messages with guys, just girls making excuses for them Doesn't matter what he does, it's not going to go anywhere - ditch him before you get seriously hung up on him and it affects the next 5 years of your life.

[Petal~flower]

aww garner, he tells you he doesnt love you and never will!

But I guess he still likes you enough to sleep with you huh....

Get rid of him and find a man who deserves you xx

[garner910]

thanx guys i have dumped him well he stood me up on my birthday and i aint contacted him since but it dont help when u see him everyday does it never mind its his loss my gain ha just i dont get how u cud spend 4 yrs wiv sum 1 n not love em ????? argh i need a real man n e ways xxx

[Kleiber]

Listen to Meat Loaf singing "Two out of Three Aint Bad" - it'll break your heart, but may make you understand.

[garner910]

awww mate iv just listened to it what u tryna do to me :( ha x

[Kleiber]

Said it would have an impact, didn't I?

[ivinghoe]

he is frightened of commitment...and is using you...this isnt going any where...dump him...if he really loves you deep down,this will give him the push needed...if not move on...and find someone nearer your own age...good luk