I want to 'come out' as a spanking man

[Romeo]

I fantasize about smacking women's bottoms or about seeing women's bottoms being smacked.  Yet many would see this as perversion.  Until recently, homosexuals were regarded as perverts, yet now they are encouraged to come out.  They seek not only tolerance, but acceptance and I've no problems with that. But if homosexuals and lesbians are to be regarded as not perverts but 'differently normal', then why can't I be?

[OBonio]

Fine in my book. Each to their and all that. As long as you don't try and spank me ;o) Nothing wrong with a healthy fetish!

[Pinotage]

It is a very common fetish, as a few seconds on google will show.  Kenneth Tynan was an addict, as his biography shows

[spiff]

As in anything to do with our sexuality,it's a matter of consent really. As far as I can see, it's ok. It would be different if your fantasies are about spanking women against their will.

[dirtyharriet]

I would just advise you to get to know someone first before telling them your fantasy.

I once met a man for coffee who had answered my ad in the personal column. He seemed nice enough and we were just chatting, when about 30 mins into the conversation he told me that he had a fetish about spanking women and was looking for women who would indulge him. (please note my advert did not in any way shape or form give the impression that I was into spanking)

Now I'm not a prude or an intolerant person but quite frankly, I was a little unsure of what to say and as I had never met him before I (rightly or wrongly) thought he was a bit odd to say the least. So I made my excuses and left.
Had he waited until we knew each other better, I may very well have been up for a bit of a spanking session. I think the impression I got was he just saw women as potential arses to spank instead of people to form relationships with.
I often giggle to myself when I think of him.

[spiff]

In A Pickle- I nearly wet myself laughing at the word "spankee" !!!!! Nice one!

[slimfandango]

Anyone else seen the film 'Secretary'? LMAO!

[londondave]

Go to a fetish club such as "Torture Garden" I say no more

[elena21]

Romeo, I think it's good!

I actually like this and ask my current partner to spank me when we are having intercourse.  It is quite nice and it feels a little dirty too!

You're NOT a pervert - you're like me! :) Sorry though, I am taken!

Good luck and just think of it as another form of foreplay.  But do NOT tell people until you know them!