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Should you go back with an ex?
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If he dumped you, in not a very nice way, but is now very keen to get back with you?
Do you try and forgive and forget, or just forget and move on????
Do you try and forgive and forget, or just forget and move on????
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Hun - I'd be so pleased for you if you got back together and things worked out. It's just hard to see that happening, because as you said yourself, he dumped you in not a very nice way - and then went straight intot the arms of someone else, so to speak. That doesn't say anything to me about love, or even caring for you - but sorry if that sounds harsh, because i don't know the full story. You've got peoples' opinions now, and obviously you wanted to see what the general thinking was. If you're hesitating, then I'd just say don't do it, but whatever happens, i hope you end up happy. x
Hi Petal, I remember the heartache you went through and how low you felt, do you really want to go back for more? he treated you really badly, you really must do a lot of thinking and remembering what it was like when he was in your life, we all look back thinking "well maybe it wasn't so bad," but it was, wasn't it, he is an ex for a reason, and that reason is because he was an arse. if you want to talk you have my e-mail. take care and look after the ones you love and yourself. Ray xx
God damm why havent I seen this post before. I say veryone deserves a 2nd chance, but it does deoend on why he dumped you. I went out with bloke previously 5 years ago, he dumped me after 2 weeks (by txt). He then realised a few years ago he�d made a huge mistake, he was young stupid, listened to too much gossip and continued to chase me for the next year or so. We have now been together over a year and I�ve never been so happy. I trust him 100% :-)
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Hi Petal~flower.
Certainly seems like he dumped you so he wouldn't feel guilty about sleeping around and acting like a 'lad' living his own life by moving so far away. Now he realises it isn't all that great and thinks he can just get back with you.
Listen to Beautiful South's "A little time" sounds just like him!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dkO_G7_iFD4
Are you sure the only reason he doesn't want to move back is because he needs to come back to the area and it's convienient to just take back up with you?
If this was me I wouldn't go back to him if he had hurt me so bad but it's easy for me to say that being on the outside, you must be feeling some turmoil but remember it is him and his behaviour that is causing that, do you really want him back when he can make you feel this way?
I wish you all the best Petal :o)
Certainly seems like he dumped you so he wouldn't feel guilty about sleeping around and acting like a 'lad' living his own life by moving so far away. Now he realises it isn't all that great and thinks he can just get back with you.
Listen to Beautiful South's "A little time" sounds just like him!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dkO_G7_iFD4
Are you sure the only reason he doesn't want to move back is because he needs to come back to the area and it's convienient to just take back up with you?
If this was me I wouldn't go back to him if he had hurt me so bad but it's easy for me to say that being on the outside, you must be feeling some turmoil but remember it is him and his behaviour that is causing that, do you really want him back when he can make you feel this way?
I wish you all the best Petal :o)
