i am so lonely

[animad]

recently i have lost my cat she had faling liver and kidneys i nursed her when she was ill i really loved her and still do, i was always happy around her it has been hard and i feel so alone the only person i feel happy with is a lad who i like i was just wondering if you know how to see if he likes me and if not how to get him to like me

[tiggerblue10]

Sorry to hear about you cat x

Unfortunately you can't get someone to like you. You could try talking to him. Ask him something in passing and see if you strike up a conversation. Then get to know him gradually. Whatever you do, don't go charging in as these things take time. Good luck.

[terambulan]

Tell the lad you lost your cat and are distraught. Ask him if he can get you another cat? If he does, you have an excuse to keep in touch with him.

Carrot........stick?

[daniela31]

You can't get someone to like you just like that. You have to attract that person by talking to them, being yourself and most of all be happy. Even though you have just lost your pet, try not to walk around with a sad face. Smile and look happy.
If he likes your natural way and conversation, you will soon know if he is interested in you or not.

Sorry to hear about your cat btw....sad news.

[rachael88]

sorry about your cat i know how you feel i lost my cat a year ago now he had to go to sleep cos he had a tumer he got it by his owner b4 me it was an old man and he used to hit him with a walking stick , th vets could not treat him and he was in pain so the oly option was to send him to sleep i cryed for weeks, about this lad u cant trick some one into likeing you what u need to do is spend time together and do things together like going to th pictures r sum thing like that give it time hun . good luck xxxxxx