sex problems

[yummymum]

me and my partner have a really good sex life my only little hang up is that he can only ejaculate in one position, him on top of me, is this normal?

[dee2912]

what is your ages

[NWA]

well with me its easier to ejaculate 'doggy style' because you can pull the same face as when you are releiving yourself and she wont see.

hope this helps

[yummymum]

stop it thats just funny nwa.... im in my mid t20's and he earlier 30's

[yummymum]

early 30's sorry cant watch tv and type

[NWA]

well actually i wasnt joking.

[yummymum]

but i can see his face? so it cant be anything like that. and confused now.

[yummymum]

what does nwa stand for anyway?

[Lore]

NWA - that doesn't work when you have floor to ceiling mirrors in the bedroom.


yummymum, It could be that it's the most comfortable/suitable position for him. Maybe he takes longer in any other position, so then he probably feels like he's not doing his job properly and ends up not getting anywhere.
If you catch my drift?

[yummymum]

it makes me feel like im not doing something right though

[dee2912]

try him standing beside the bed an you lying on the bed its a start from him on top

[sir.prize]

On good authority - NWA means not worth answering.

[Lore]

That's a shame yummy, Have you tried to talk to him about it?
Maybe you could just mention that you feel like you're not doing enough for him (rather than make it sound like you're complaining about his 'performance')
Hopefully he will offer a reason as to why it's got to be that way - other than the reason he's already given.

[yummymum]

ive been putting of saying anything because its only recently that our sex life as begun to get good again after going through a rough patch and i didnt want to rock the boat. The trouble is i had a mini stroke and i cant remember a lot of things from before, and i cant really remember if its always been the case so thats putting me of saying any thing

[legendis.god]

Well as ive been crowned agony aunt of cb id like to recommend wifeswapping / swinging .That way when hes in another room with someone else he will be ejaculating in another position and you may be getting some fun too.
Its fun to experiment and this may be what hes looking for .A sort of cry for help.


DID THAT HELP?

[fashionqueen]

I just think you should just experiment with other things ! Maybe try doing it standing up against a mirror with you in front so he can still see you ! mirros are a great way to use different positions ! maybe try role play a bit ! i dont mean tacky as in using porno language and stuff but I mean like making sure the house is all yours and get yourself looking hot for when he gets home ! start by texting him to asses the mood ! the texting (not when he is driving prefferabley will be the start of it so he knows he getting something and he will be half way there when he gets in ! its not about you or positions its just probably the way he has found that suits him best ! also you could do other positions then tell him you wanna see him do it himself ! then he can get used to doing what is usually a private thing in front of you! x Its about being confident about things but try and be tactile if it does get to the point where you have to mention it men are quite sensitive when it comes to this subject ! and whatever yu do dont mention it sraight after or before ! do it away from the bedroom and tell him tha you love everything he does you just woried that he might not enjoy it other ways ! he wil lopen up eventually if there is a prob ! x goodluck x

[JezUK1]

I guess if that works with him that works with him. Don't take it to heart. After all most women can't orgasm certain positions so why can't it be the same as some blokes? there are no rules in this game.... well only the legal ones of course.

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