Consequences

[Maypole]

I am considering smashing up my soon to be ex husband's 3 week old brand new Porsche in an attempt to convince him that (a) I wont be paying for half of it, (b) Id like some child and spousal maintenance as he hasnt paid any in the 18 months we've been separated, and (c) Id like at least some of my capital before he spends it all.

I thought Id wait till he was out of it on Christmas Day when he comes to play Mr Bountiful, and then use a baseball bat on the glass and paint stripper on the body.

I was wondering what offence this would be and that consequences might be as I cannot risk a custodial sentence. Your constructive expertise will be most welcome.

[Rollo]

It sort of makes you wonder, with an attitude like the Mrs here, just who is the "unreasonable" party in this squalid little saga!

[jayney 12]

been reading these posts and quietly smiling to myself, some people think they got it bad some think they know it all, its a shame really, i was in the same boat 21 years ago, ex had first class job i was left with 3 young kids to bring up he evaded maintenance and i watched him take several expensive holidays a year, buy a new car every 6 months, build a gorgeous 5 bed house for him and new gf and her 2 kids, he ignored his own kids i got a p/t job brought my kids up met someone else remarried had 2 more kids very very happy now my older children wont give their real father roomspace, they love their stepdad to bits and their half siblings and i sit back and smile in the warm glow of satisfaction that 20 years ago i knew would come, oh and by the way during this time of hell all those years ago i had baliffs banging my door down debt collectors calling and threats of reposession but not once did i ask my ex for anything. so no its not worth it ust wait and hold your temper cos what goes around comes around, y ex is a sad loser who is facing a lonely old age in big house cos the gf soon got bored and his chilren dont want to know and his xmas presents as every year gone by since my children became adults remain outsie the porch where they were left and will go to the local charity of choice. there is justice the natural way

[MWB]

Hey Maypole. Did you do the deed?

[stargazer43]

he will not be bothered too much as insurance will pay to replace the damadge or the court will make you pay for it try and find someway of hurting him without leaving yourself on charges the relevant authorities can deal with him not paying and refuse to let him see the kids untill he starts paying for their upbringing ...whats he gonna do take you to court...where the judge will tell him hes got what he deserved ..if he cares about his children he will cough up if not explain to him youre gonna tell the kids he wont help pay for them so cant see them...he sounds like a waste of space anyway he can not go round saying he cant affoard it cos he could always get rid of the car and have more money...