999 you've lost me. Sorry about your nan an all but to come back to angel's dilemma, the squeaky clean solution is to tell your boss you need to take a day out without pay, for personal reasons. Tell him nowt else. That way you are not defrauding anybody, or sullying your karma, which means good karma will accompany your actions. And you are obeying the age old premiss of 'never explain, never apologise'. Plus, your boss can always man the phones for a few hours on a friday, I'm sure.