If you weren't 'you' ...

[Bbbananas]

...and you met 'you' as someone else - do you think you would like yourself?

If you know what I mean?

[Bbbananas]

I suspect logic that you're not as grumpy & horrible as you make out ;-)

[logic]

Don't be fooled by my extremely pleasent exterior. :-)

[andy-hughes]

Thanks salla, that's really nice of you.

I don't mind the Paul McKenna bit because he has a beautiful voice and he dresses nicely, though the same cannot be said for Loyd Grossman!

The last young lady who found me seriously attractive - and she was seriously trying to seduce me - much to my amazement and pleasure in equal measure - told me that at first she thought my self-deprication was just a front, a sort of Hugh Grant "Yes I pretend to be modest but I know I am attractive really ..." before she realised that I really meant it!

I should say for the record that I resisted her advances - she was in a band, aged twenty-three, and a serious head-turner in the Jamelia / Rihanna area. We had dinner, and a wonderful conversation, and I never saw her again.

[Bbbananas]

Beauty really is in the eye of the beholder you know. Women aren't really that shallow & fickle that they simply go for looks. Although I joke about Adonis' such as Johnny Depp - in real life, I have never really gone for 'pretty boys'. I like faces with character rather than your standard drop-dead-gorgeous-but-with-nothing-to-say type of men.

None of my boyfriend's or husband(s) have been great lookers. Well, a couple were, but one fled to Greece... and didn;'t ask me to be his Shirley Valentine ;-( and the other, well, I can't possibly say.

[sqad617]

salla...well that is you and me finished.......must be honest, I am the Greek Adonis that you mentioned and am certainly a "pretty boy"....in the ornithological sense you know .LOL

[Bbbananas]

do you mean you're a budgie sqad?!
(I always fancied Adam Faith....) x

[angel21]

I'm quiet but have a mad, bubbly side and I am a constant worrier

[Bbbananas]

angel - you sound like an aero left out in the sun...