Cafcass and kids

[katalina74]

Hello I have two 7 and 5 left my ex husband in August after years of domestic violence
Moved to a new house, I allowed him to have our girls at the weekends until October when he came to my property and beat me again in front of the children I had him arrested for ABH and he was found guilty in court.

When he dropped the girls of that night my 7 year old had said she did not want to go to his house anymore I asked he why and she said just because. I told him what she had said that's why he hit me.

Over the last few weeks the girls have told me that there dad had hit them when I had gone out or he was looking after them.
He wants to see the girls but they still don't want to see him so we got the courts involved and cafcass still waiting to see them
Last night my 7-year-old got all upset for no reason and unexpectedly said that her dad had touched her. As soon as she said it my little girl said yes I saw him do it. I asked her when and she said after we had moved. I have called the police and are waiting for her to be interviewed.

What will cafcass recommend will he get to see them although they never want to see him again?

Pleas help what can I do to keep this man away from me and the girls which does not involve me killing him with my bear hands!!!

i have a residence order and non molestation order

they don't want to see him with supervised visitation what can i do make them go its so hard i don't know what to do?

[andy-hughes]

I am no expert in the legal aspects of parental access, but if he asks for access, simply refuse, even if the court sides with him.

Go back to court, and take the medai with you - shame him into leaving you alone.

It may be a fight, but it has to be worth it.

I am so sorry to hear what a slimeball your husband has turned out to be - no woman - or child - has to put up with his from anyone - a valuable lesson your chldren are never to young - and your husband never too old - to learn.

[waterboatman]

What a tragedy. I am not a lawyer, but if your husband has been molesting one, or both, of your daughters, I cannot see any court in the land granting him access, especially if they do not want to see him.

I wish you well and a good future to you and your daughters.

[oldmaggie]

If there is the slightest suspicion of abuse by your ex on these girls I cannot see any family court ordering contact supervised or not. Talk to your girls before the CAFCASS officer comes and try and get them to tell all that has happened. If you are afraid to be in your home tell the police and they could maybe arrange a panic button or if not a refuge for the time being. I am so sorry for you please try and keep strong for your little girls.

[dot.hawkes]

Tell you what, in all my years on here i have never some across such a coincidence as you and your ex both posting the virtual exact same scenario in almost the exact same words with almost the exact same phrasing and terminology.

What a massive coincidence that you've both used AB like this to air your dirty washing.