I have done an awful thing....

[MsJackBauer]

I have never ever felt the need to look at my partners mobile phone, but today I did.

Views please on wether I should be worried that he has saved a text message on his phone from a lady he spent time with in New Zealand back in January 2006. This was a trip he took with other people but I know he spent a lot of time with this lady. She lives in NZ and the text message was saying that she "enjoyed his company too and there will always be a place here for him to stay."

I have never been the jealous or suspicious type but curiosity got the better of me and now I feel really stupid.

[sn�gs]

What made you look at his phone today when never before?

[MsJackBauer]

I think because recently he was getting a lot of texts from an old female friend who wanted to go out for a drink with him. (I found that out because my daughter read it when it came through).

We have been together for 5 years and we have our up and downs like all couples do.

[sophie_1003]

if it's worrying you just ask your partner about it, admit that you were wrong to look through his phone but just ask him for reassurance that there's nothing dodgy going on. If you don't it's just going to eat away at you and you'll end up worrying over a problem that may ot exist. Let us know how you got on.

[happyone2]

i wonder if you really think in your heart of hearts that things have changed, something doesnt feel right which is why you checked his texts........................

a good honest talk confronting the issues..........your worries, his detachment.............. ask him out right, dont pussy foot around be brave and ask him " are you looking for someone else "

perhaps you also need to work out how you really do feel about the relationship..................

good luck

[sqad617]

LOl LOL you are a star MsBauer.

[Chicklin,]

Men shouldnt be allowd mobile phones.

[Sgt.Rock]

Women and mobile phones are a dangerous combination. Men get no peace when a woman has your number, pointless texts every 5 minutes!!

[rockcrusher]

Quick meal sarg

Sgt.Rock
Sun 05/04/09
12:33 Well if other AB users can have high-profile TV presenter partners, then so can I. If you must know it's the bird off the One Show, -must be off, don't want to keep her waiting.


Was there no cabbage then ?

[Sgt.Rock]

Really have to go now, Christine has been on the mobile to me, bye!!

[rockcrusher]

I think SgtCrocky is on the Crack

[Chicklin,]

is it your wife sgt rock, if not then why did you give the woman your number!! My case in point.

[dafuzzbuzz13]

sorry MsJackBauer,but the user rockcrusher (legend) has'nt any women experience and should not be commenting on any subject that involves them.

[Chicklin,]

lol good ole leggy!

[rockcrusher]

Buzz thinks i am Legend

Another crackhead here

Try again Squad

[Chicklin,]

your a crackhead??

[dafuzzbuzz13]

Ok then knobby! What did you buy your wife?

[legendis.god]

chicky

rocky aint me

i only use legendisgod or leggymessiah



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