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Do you take your mates opinions? I mean if a mate tells you the truth no matter how much it hurts or might p1ss you off are you the kind of person to listen? Get snotty? Or pretend it hasnt upset you, then get the huff after whilst thinking about what they have said, even though it may be true. On the other hand do you always tell your mates the truth in a situation?
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I much prefer honesty from friends,whether it hurts at the time or not.I will listen to a friend's opinion,but not neccessarily agree with it.
I am brutally honest sometimes,which is why my sister won't take me clothes shopping with her any more.She hates being told that she is too old to wear the styles teenagers wear (she is 43 and looks it).
I am brutally honest sometimes,which is why my sister won't take me clothes shopping with her any more.She hates being told that she is too old to wear the styles teenagers wear (she is 43 and looks it).
some truths are more important than others, but that doesn't mean it's okay to lie.
for example, it's not necessary to say "you've put on weight", but if you're asked.. behonest (and tactful!).
personally, I'd rather ask a friend who would always be honest with me than one who would say what they thought I wanted to hear.
I take it someone has upset you?
for example, it's not necessary to say "you've put on weight", but if you're asked.. behonest (and tactful!).
personally, I'd rather ask a friend who would always be honest with me than one who would say what they thought I wanted to hear.
I take it someone has upset you?
I would rather here the truth from my best of friends but some mates just say stuff that they know will hurt. But no no one has upset. Its just a friend although not a close one keeps going on FB and talking about her partner, father to their 2 children soon to be 3. Lastnight she said she wanted him to leave and get out the house. She is always on there slating him and from what I see he really gives her alot. One minute she will be on there hating him and then on another status she'll be saying how she loves going shopping and spending his money. Lastnight I went on and told her I didnt think talking about it on a social website was fair on him, and how she wouldnt like it if she went on their and saw him writing things abut her, and that theres a time and place. She actually took it ok and said 'yes you are right I shouldnt have put it' but I'm still wondering if she is really going to take my advice or get annoyed that I said anything in first place
If he saw these things he'd be so upset. All she says is how she wants to leave him all the time. I actaully told her I think she expects too much she took that pretty ok aswell. I wasnt trying to be nasty but I think she needs to know what some people think. I've even just said ok leave him then and then she says she cant afford to, she has no job and doesnt drive. So she isnt happy with him but is very happy for him to support her.
Cant be same friend as this boyfriend isnt on FB so doesnt even get to defend himself. Thing is my bloke is very good mates with him and I feel so sorry for him. After she said I was right she said she wanted to meet so she could explain all and then I could tell her what to do. I said I cant tell her but if she is putting everything on there all day everyday then she cant love him at all.
devil I have said well leave then and as I said thats when she says she doesnt have anywhere to go and cant afford to. Which is what annoys me if she doesnt love him she is just using him for money.
Troll if I dont have time to meet with all the people I know on FB I'd not have any of the year to myself :-)
Troll if I dont have time to meet with all the people I know on FB I'd not have any of the year to myself :-)
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