Should i bother with a girlfriend?

[WantToHelp]

Well, I am 14 now.

Pretty confident.. I'm not the shy type... but when it comes to new girlfriends i cant seem to pull the courage to ask someone out.. i've been rejected a few times before and sometimes they've dumped me a few days after...

I've only ever snogged one girl .. (i know.. lame)

And yeah. I was a bit chubby back then. (not obese.. chubby)

I've lost 2 stone since then because.. well i'd rather eat 900 kcals a day and have a girlfriend.

I haven't had a girlfriend since and dont want to ask because i'm afraid i'll get rejected.. and i dont blame them i'm not that good looking.

http://img266.imageshack.us/img266/8699/… ;

That's me a few months ago. I've lost abit more weight so yeah.

What do you think? Should i bother ?

[WantToHelp]

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sorry. Try them- them photos work

[Ice.Maiden]

I think you should be in bed.

[GoWest]

I did not have my first snog til i was 15 (which was a little while ago now!!) so i guess that makes me even lamer than you! Dont stress about not having a girlfriend. It will happen when it happens.

[MWB]

No. And don't bother with boys either, you'll be just as ugly to them as to girls.

Stop taking the mickey, do your homework & like Ice Maiden said - you should be in bed.

[WantToHelp]

I was looking for aa Q&A site other than Yahoo! Answers, But here no one can take you seriously.

[Sachs]

You're young.Go out with your mates, have a laugh. Theres a lot of attraction in the ability to make a girl laugh. Don't go out of your way to find it, it'll happen.

[sn�gs]

Stick to X Box... less mess... more fun... cheaper... and you can turn it off when you get bored ;-)

[angiealf]

No disrespect to you, But you are still just a kid. At 14 you should be enjoying yourself with friends and mucking about like the average youngster, not thinking about a serious relationship. I'm a 40 year old woman and I haven't yet found a guy - you've got plenty of time for that. Wait a few years.
If you were 30 years older than you are - who knows..........

[beso]

Looking for a girlfriend doen't seem to work. In my youth I was like this and still didn't have a girlfriend when I was 20. Once I stopped being concerned about it my next dilema was which offer to accept.

I think most women don't really want needy guys.

[madmaggot]

Girls are attracted to lads with hobbies and who are happy to be who they are, not trying to be something they are not. At 14 I was busy with riding, helping out at local kennels, oh, and school of course (btw I'm female). I met my first boyfriend at the farm where the pony that I looked after was at grass. IE I didn't go looking for a boyfriend, I just met him and we became friends.