what time ????

[total.legend]

what is the loneliest time of the day?

Listening to john mayer
he reckons
that 10 until 2 is the loneliest time

which i take to mean 10pm to 2 am


and i guess i can see where hes comin from..


so

opinions ?�?�'

[Ice.Maiden]

Tell us about the trip when you get back Chris. I love Germany, so hope you have a great time.

[pastafreak]

Icey...'past' loves are not always 'bad ' loves.....

[Ice.Maiden]

Never said they were hun - but if they were so brilliant, they wouldn't be past ones would they? I try not to reflect on what's gone before. Good times, bad times, but live for today's my motto! : )

[total.legend]

tambo

that sounds so empty

and lonely : 0(

[pastafreak]

You are still not 'getting ' it icey......maybe you have not chose for them to be past.......but fate has....

[pastafreak]

...and if we don't reflect on what's gone before..we don't learn from it.
some great philosopher said those who forget the past are doomed to repeat it.....

I know....too deep for this time of night!!

[Ice.Maiden]

I don't believe that fate chooses to make a partner suddenly be a past one.
Something happens sometimes - either one or both at fault - or you both agree that it's not going to work - but when they've gone, they've gone. Doesn't mean you might not think of them occasionally, but it's not healthy to be stuck in the past.

[tamborine]

I do my best Leg to 'stir' them up but no change. They are much admired in their own careers and are continually asked why they wont have families and clocks ticking etc - but zilch!

Is it a different generation thing?

[tamborine]

Chris - keep away from those red lights in Frankfurt.....where are you going?

I've got an ex in Frankfurth ;)

[Ice.Maiden]

I think different people want different things out of life tamb.

[total.legend]

im 45 thi december and ll be single 3 and half years

and thats my chosen pth now

i may stray from it

im a man after all

but its the path ive chosen and i will stick to it

nothing against any woman but theres noone id relinquish my independance for


if you need a hug come to the reef ill look after you


cant say fairer than that

[tamborine]

so I gather Ice....but when I hit the dust this lot will be disbanded - and I want them wedded before I go; I could have 7 weddings if they bluddy paired, that would be fun ;)

[Ice.Maiden]

Leggy - pasta's frozen. Stay there a min. x

[total.legend]

A the planning of life


at first

it seems so simple

and obvious


until you consider peoples free will


then

it all goes t1ts up


enjoy tambo

[Ice.Maiden]

Oh my sweet tamb!!!! Awww.....you want me to find some girlies for them?????

[Ice.Maiden]

leggy - hold on there a min please.

[pastafreak]

sozz folks.......got frozen there.....and google was very disbediant!!

[Ice.Maiden]

And that was a sweet thing to say leggy - but I can't work out why anyone'd choose to be on their own, especially as they get older. It's nice to have someone to come home to, for all sorts of reasons, but then again, it's each to their own.