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I am 43 years old and have two grown up sons. I have been on my own since they were toddlers and I used to have a fairly good social life. I had a few 'friends' and we went out at least once a week. I now find myself without the responsiblity of my children but without any friends, the ones I had have either got involved with new partners or have in one way or another let me down. I would like to meet more people but I am not really intrested in going out to bars again - I could bump into my children. I would like to have friends to meet for lunch or basically just have friends. How can I meet new people
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.I'd agree with the above posts, find something you're interested in and join a group/class or something to do with that. That way you'll meet people with whom you have at least one thing in common. Here's some suggestions: bird watching, book club, dancing, keep fit, family history (one of the fastest growing hobbies in the country!), helping out at a local beach/park/canal tidy...........
By the way, what's wrong with going down the pub at 43????!!! I'm 43, though my children are younger than yours, and I still go down the pub, usually on quiz night!
By the way, what's wrong with going down the pub at 43????!!! I'm 43, though my children are younger than yours, and I still go down the pub, usually on quiz night!
Get dressed up and go out with your sons! Their friends have Mums and Dads in exactly the same predicament as you.
However you decide to aproach your new social life, whether you go line dancing or crochet class, you can be sure most others there are there for exactly the same reason.
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Hi. At your time of life I understand that it is difficult to make friends but wha I think you need to do is to identify an interest you have, more than an interest it would need to be a passion, then go out there and find like minded people. I can assure you adults in general will not fall over themselves to make new friends but if you can identify a hobby or interest you will find like minded people who statistically you will get on with.
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There are tons of activities you can take party in. my auntie does yoga and dancing and makes loads of friends that way. And she alays gets dates too. My mum went to italian lessons and now she always has someone to go on holiday with. My other auntie went back to college and made loads of new friends there.