I hardly

[PeeBee1]

get maintenance for my child off my ex, approx �30 a month, IF I AM LUCKY, but he seems to think it is ok to buy him computer games, go the pics etc, rather than contribute to his upbringing of what he needs, clothes, shoes, uniform, school dinners etc.

He informed me the other day that his new gf of a few months is taking him on holiday, i know he must be contributing to spends unless she is paying for him all week, which for me is being a bum. He is claiming dole!!! If i was a man i couldnt let a girl support me like that, even as a women i couldnt.

What do you all think?? Thank you

[KrazyKojak]

Yeah what a loser,does your kids father live in tenerife btw,as it sounds like someone we all know very well here!

[MWB]

There are lots of moochers out there, pees.

He's obviously one of 'em.

There are also silly people who will let them mooch.

I couldn't do it myself & don't know how people can.

[PeeBee1]

Thanks for your replies, yes i am well rid & no he doesnt live in Tenerife, wish he did tho lol

[PeeBee1]

I used to be soft with him, but take no sh!t anymore, i actualy said to him, when are you going to grow up & get a job. Hes a fookin waste of space but my son idolises him, but hes got to grow up & see what he is like for himself eh!!

[PeeBee1]

I hope so Vibra, thank u x

[ParaLEGGal]

peeebee well pop over then lol


btw if his gf has any mates that would like to support me

send them instead.


thanks for the mention inbcase anyone thought you were my ex


youre not


well not yet


lmao

[eyeshade]

PeeBee surely you should think yourself lucky he takes him to the pictures and buys him things, a lot of fathers don't do that let alone ever see their children. His new GF's money should hardly come into the equation. They are your children not hers. You should try and conentrate on getting a better bond between you all which will be far beneficial for everyone Try and be a bit more grown up about it even if he isn't. These things only blow up bigger if you let them. ES

[zzxxee]

go through the c.s.a all done legally then

[sn�gs]

''c.s.a''

About as useful as a chocolate radiator...

[PeeBee1]

I think you are missing the point ES, he is not supporting his child like he should be, pictures, games are great & they are his choice to do all that with him but it should not come before supporting him in things that he needs rather than what will make him look good in my sons eyes.

Couldn't gice a sh!t about gf's money, its the fact that he can go on holiday (Surely he must be taking some of his own DOLE money) that he cant support his son with.

Lol, its not about bonds either, have a great bond with my son. Just want his father to grow up & accept his responsibilities.

Thanks anyway

[zzxxee]

well if hes on the dole he wouldnt even be obligated to pay you the 30 pound a month hes apying you through the c.s.a so scrap that idea then...tell him to get off his backside get a job and support his child or call jeremey vile lol

[PeeBee1]

I asked him when he was gonna sort his life out & get a job lol. Ooohh zzxxee, im far to classy for Jeramy Vile lols.

I just think hes a joke, but im proud to say how ive brought my son Ive dun it on my own & hes a lovely kid, so fook him.

Its just the principle.

Ive read quite a few threads over the months saying "I only get �200 odd maintenance & it should be more" they are lucky lol.

Anyway thanx for your feedback all xx

[zzxxee]

men and woman who are the absent parent who shirk their responsibilities make me sick

[PeeBee1]

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