wanting to have children

[getonwithit]

hey i am a 41 year old male and am now starting to stress that i am not in a relationship and dont have children ! where can i find a wife ? are there dating websites for people like me who need to move quickly in the past year i am realising that i am not going to be eternaly young as i always thought !

[pastafreak]

Hey...you are fortunate,because as a man-you can be a father at any age...you are not as hampered by 'age' as a woman is.
And..there is no way you should put a time limit on 'finding' someone...that is alll wrong. "move quickly"....that just doesn't sound right.You don't 'find' a wife...she is not a commodity. You will go thru quite a few duds before you find someone you want to spend your life with....and whom you love..and she loves you.

[Ice.Maiden]

Getonwithit - I can't believe I'm reading this! You'll never find a woman to settle with if you're just rushing along to find one who wants to have your children.
I mean...dating websites for "people like me who need to move quickly....."

[caththecrazy]

quickly doesn't do it for me - see previous post on first page

[tamborine]

What have you got to offer......spell it out! We'll tell you if you're worthy of a wife and children.

[gossipgirl]

omg ive just posted a thingy about my sister in law feeling the same way as you. shes 41, single and is desperate for children, so much so that she is even contemplating going to a sperm bank. What a coincedence!

[Sqad]

plentyoffish.com
illicitencounters.com
Meerkat.com......oh! sorry.

[MWB]

Do the children have to be your own, getonwithit?

Perhaps you could find a lovely woman who's a solo mum? You could bring her children up as your own. Adopt them even.

[baljit]

Hello, I sympathise with u. I am 42 single female and stressed for same reason. Part of problem is selfish throway world we live in. there are too many single and divorced people in their 40s. try plenty of fish dating site.There are a lot of people in your situation and a lot of people who dont want to commit or share or compromise they are just too selfish. Best of luck with finding a wife, u will have to meet some wrungons before you meet a right woman