I fancy a girl but...

[kammalla]

Relationship advice anyone?

I've got my eye on a girl wher I work but I know her only as an aquaintance (I know my spelling isn't great). I haven't said a great deal to her personally but have laughed and joked with the people in her office including her. I've seen things on the 'net and occasional newspaper or magazine article that say 'if a girl does this she fancies you' and I know she has done it. Played with her hair with one finger, looking at me then looking away shyly when I look at her, all that kind of thing.

I'm just not very - well alright not any - good when it comes to asking people out and that sort of thing, I'm very very shy. I need advice (be yourself whilst well intentioned is not helpful).

Help!

[logic]

if you are serious take poodi's advice,
You will only get riddicule in this section,
as we are all a sandwich short of a picnic on here,

[Kim A]

Ok. First thing, ask around. See if she's already dating anyone or not. The way offices are, someone is bound to men tion to her that you've been asking about her so it shouldn't come as a big surprise if and when you pluck up the courage to ask her out. Go on - be brave. What have you got to lose?

[logic]

OH OH what have i said,?
I'm off.

[brenda]

kammalla, sounds as tho you are are a very nice person, Sowhy not ask the girl out for a coffee , or a drink after work .Nothing too grand ,and if she says no then may be you've got it wrong and there is no harm done if you play it casual.All the best of luck , please let us know what happens..

[logic]

Well, that as well POODI. :-)

[logic]

If you can't make any headway with this bird, ask for Dr. Captain Vibrasphere of The Angry Pirates, he will give you some good advice,

[logic]

F F S ^ ^ ^

[Sqad]

Ask her if she wants to come "doggin" with you, me and logic.............that will offer you a subtle introduction.

[logic]

R O F L @SQAD how subtle can you get ?

[Sqad]

drontal....don't be like that......you can come as well.

[logic]

if she's up for a bit of dogging ,don't forget Vibra, and mrs SQAD.

[Sqad]

logic....good thinking.

[logic]

All this smut is disgusting,

I'm going to find a clean thread.

[Dunloptyre]

what a horrible lot you are the person have asked for advice and you feed them with a shed load of smut.