craft my friend is a heavy smoker, stinks to high heavens, but its his choice to smoke and thats fine. when he last came round my house for a day he asked if he could smoke - i have 2 small kids - and i sad yes, but only outside the back/front door - it was a nice day anyway.
so that was fine, but as r1 says in his last sentence though even this he treated with selfish disregard. over the course of the day he must have smoked about 30 - 40 fags, as when he left i found all the butt ends on my patio, in my lawn, up the pathway and by the back door. the Little Bustard didn't even contemplate that this was rude and that it was his responsibility to dispose f them appropriately, or that my kids might pick these up and put them in their mouth. he will never be invited to my house again.
it is selfish careless smokers like this, that spoil it for you all.