Been ditched

[hellymyname]

A few weeks ago, one of my best friends met this guy and now they are seeing each other. She has now become the best of friends with this girl who doesnt go to our school who is friends with this guy and all his friends. When she is with us all she talks about it this guy or her whole new group of friends. Whenever anyone tries to arrange to do anything with her she is either with her new best friend or hanging out with the guy and all his friends, and whenever we are all at a party (so all her new friends and all our group of friends are there) she just ignores us whenever we try to talk to her when she is with them. And now- even worse, when i tried to confront her about it, she runs to her new best friend and all of a sudden her new best friend is talking to me and asking me whats going on- and its none of her business! What should i do?

[ummmm]

Do nothing. Be happy for your friend....it's likely to pass.

[CheekyChops]

Find a new best friend.

[karenmac60]

That's how things go I'm afraid. At the moment your friend is caught up in the excitement of her new relationship and she's spending time with him and his friends - they know him and she feels she can get to know him better by mixing with his circle. Her old friends seem boring by comparison. Once the novelty wears off or her relationship breaks down, she'll be back looking for the comfort of the familiar. It is then up to you whether you want her back in your life. You can support her and be there for her when it all goes wrong or you can cut all ties and move on, it's up to you.