Annoyed at my mum . . .she's got a new bf and he's taking over . . .

[MissCommando]

My mum was seeing a guy for a while and they've recently become an official item. I've never met him but my sister and brother have as they live with my mum. I am going to stay with my mum this weekend (we live an hour and a half away) and I don't get to see her very much.
Anyway, I am really annoyed as it's her birthday Fri, so her new chap will be coming round that evening (fair enough, I thought) but then she said she thought it would be nice if we could all go out for a meal on the Sat night. I told her that I wasn't happy about that as I don't see her much and I'm coming down to see her and not him. It's not like they're living together (yet!) Also, surely he realises that I want to spend time with my mum!
I was on the phone to her the other night and he rang her mobile so she said "I'm just on the phone to my daughter" and he apparently said "And?" and was annoyed as he wanted to speak to her!!! My sister said he is very touchy feely and doesn't stop staring at my mum, rubbing her back etc and it makes her feel uncomfortable. She said he also just opens the front door and lets himself in!!
Oh and my sister is pregnant, she's only 18 and my mum was planning on finding another house to rent in the same town as her but since she's got her bf, he wants to move to another town. It's almost as though he wants my mum to himself and she seems completely obsessed with him.
My mum has been on her own a long time (my dad died when she was 33) so I do want her to be happy but I feel so annoyed about it all. Am I being unreasonable? I've also told my mum that I don't want to see him all over her and she said she can't tell him not to hug her etc but I don't think you should be like that in front of your partner's children!

[ummmm]

Well said Karen :-)

[boxtops]

Hear hear from me, too.

[cassa333]

I though I had posted on this yesterday but it doesn't seem to have come up.

Basicly GROW UP.