Texting between dates

[JezUK1]

Ok I have been talking to a girl online and met up with her a few days ago and it went really well and we have arranged to meet again Tuesday evening. We are both 26. I would like this to turn into a relationship! This weekend she is off on a hen do. Ok she has been texting me which is good but things to say are running out lol. Should I be cheeky teasing or play safe? I want her to start wanting me etc. I'm finding she is on my mind loads. Cheers

[Sqad]

boxtops....read his bloody question.....he is seeing her again on TUESDAY.

Just leave the sexual advice to me....;-)

[JezUK1]

Some of my friends said that I should play kind of hard to get. I should use the push-pull method but be cool/friendly and tease in a fun and friendly way to try and keep her on her toes and to keep things interesting. Do you think this is wise or is that just playing mind games which will eventually just backfire?

[Sqad]

jez....if you bore her as badly as you are boring me.........I should forget the whole thing.

[sara3]

you can play games if you think she'll appreciate unwittingly being part of your game.

do you think so? really?

[boxtops]

Too right Sqad, selective memory this end. Well then, wait and see what happens on Tuesday then, jez! I'm looking at it from her perspective, sqad,...

[Barmaid]

Never ever play games. That's just playground stuff.

Just be yourself.

[boxtops]

..jez, no - games work far less well that some guys think they do. Keep her on her toes? - cheek.
She's maybe keeping YOU on your toes by keeping on texting you, two can play that particular game, but women tend to get called less pleasant names if guys think they are messing them about.

[JezUK1]

Thanks for that sqad really nice. I will simply be myself after all that's what she's interested in I would assume. The majority of people I meet say I'm easy to get on with with a good sense of humour and personality so I'll stick with being me. Thank you for your views everyone.

[cazzz1975]

have not read the replies but in my opinion, dont over think it, be yourself and do what you feel is right. dont be pressured by friends to act a certain way, be yourself. if she likes you then you should be home and dry.