why wont he make time to see me??

[selinamc]

I met up with a guy less tan 2 weeks ago i sed to know and we met up 3 times during the weekend. We got on really well and after sleeping with him, the next morning we were talking and he asked me would i be his girlfriend.
i said id like to be his girlfriend and after this he walkd me back home. But the following weekend i cudnt see him because he was working. I spoke to him over the fon and he sed he would see me this weekend coming but tonight when spoke to him on facebook he said hes staying in friday ashes working saturday and sunday. I asked him if maybe i cud come over to see him instead of goin out but he neva replied. I just feel like now im getting mixed messaged and i know some guys havebusy work scheduls but i feel like i dont know how to get around this. what would u do?? any advice guys?? x

[yogi-bear]

He came, he saw, he conquered, he came again, he moved on........

Not rocket science, selinamc.... he does'nt want to know....neither should you, so move on, young lady and good luck :0) x

[Old_Geezer]

My first advice is to stop being such an easy lay. You probably have a reputation.

Next, although it doesn't sound good, nothing much lost by contacting him and asking outright where you stand.

If you can't get an answer or if he admits he's lost interest you know where you stand.
If he claims he is still interested then point out you need some priority in his life, and see if his actions match his words over the next week or so.

Oh and you might invest in some spell check software. We all make typos, me more than most, but you're not making a good impression, it looks like you don't care.

[Angel_love]

He's probably a user like alot of men, they will make up all sorts of crap to make you believe they want more than sex, and that they may really love and intend to date you but dumping you and finding the next victim is so much more empowering to them and their male egos.

[bobjugs12]

Angel, you sound slightly bitter

[Brinjal]

You aint getting mixed messages. the message is he isnt interested. Leave it alone and dont make an ass of your self

[lumination]

you slept with him within 2 weeks. his chase is over. i made my boyfriend wait for 3 months till he got any and thankfully after 8 we are still a pair.
doesnt seem like he is interested anymore. if he was then he would make the effort to contact you. if any guy likes you that much he will plan to meet YOU not you to plan to meet him.

[Whoever]

You slept with him almost immediately after meeting him, so he's already had all he wanted from you. Why should he hang around? Play hard to get. Don't devalue yourself and have more self respect. Your body isn't something to flogged around on the street to the first bloke who comes along.

[juandelacruz]

Whatever you do, don't write to him. Join an evening literacy class first