Just need a little help!

[_sophie_]

Right so this guy started flirting with me, I didn't think I liked him so didn't flirt back much but I admit it was nice to know someone actually likes you like that and this is the first time it has really happened to me seriously (I'm 15). I didn't give him much back but he kept trying and then when he stopped for a while I became aware that I missed it a little bit. I've never been sure if he is being serious or if he is just doing to to joke about me with his friends or something but I still liked him (not sure if this is because it hasn't happened to me before but I just wasn't sure about him). We haven't spoke in about a week and I feel like he is going off me (I am still having increased feelings for him! but I'm not sure if I would really like anything to happen, I just like it anywaaays) and today I saw him holding hands with another girl. When I saw him I just felt this massive pang kind of in my heart and just don't think I actually could believe it. Should I ask him what this is all about/if this has all been a joke for him/what is going on? I just don't know what to think/do/say. I don't want it to be awkward because we both go to the same school.. aah I dont know what to do!

[Sqad]

How do you think we got on well,well before the days of AB?

We made a decision ourselves and then followed it up or not as the case may be.....and guess what? We survived to tell the tale.

Make you own decision and show how mature and grown up you are.

In this life, some you win and some you don´t.

[237SJ]

Maybe because as you say you didn`t give much back he thought you didn`t like him. Maybe he was just flirting anyway but was with the other girl all along. Maybe you`re just flattered that someone likes you so therefore I wouldn`t worry too much about him. Find someone else if he`s playing games.

[karenmac60]

I remember when you posted about him being flirty and you weren't too keen. That's the way with life and our fickle emotions. Something makes us uncomfortable but we grow to like it, and then when it stops we want it back. He has possibly just taken the hint - you weren't interested and he's moved on. You can either accept that and move on yourself, or you can talk to him. Tell him that although you weren't happy about the flirting at first, your feelings have changed and if he is still interested you'd like to see how things go. I know it's hard, and you're taking a risk that he'll reject you - but at least you'll know where you stand, and if he's not interested you can get on with forgetting about him. If you don't take a chance you could miss out on something great. Oh, and ignore sqad - its a long long time since he was a 15 year old girl ;)

[CuteToni]

You poor thing! It's all part of growing up and it is an awfully confusing time getting to grips with your emotions. Smile at him next time you see him, try not to let jealousy develop as that can sometimes cause you problems.

[juandelacruz]

Let it drop. It's likely to be the attention you're missing. Even if it's him, it's got too complicated. Love is real and genuine at your age and never let anyone tell you otherwise; but it does almost always die away and become renewed with someone else. That's how it should be or you'd marry the first man you met. You learn about love and loving this way. Try and keep it light - don't be guided by pop-song lyrics that tell you "I will love him for ever." Enjoy your loving, don't let it go any further than you want and never but never have full sex without protection.