sex with a married man

[ooh-la-la]

I meet a guy 4 weeks ago, went on a date with him and we got on really well. On the second date we had sex i began to like him even more. I meet him for the third time yesterday and after we had sex he told me he was married. I felt so crap, i just don't know what to do, i stayed with him for about a hour after he told me (without having sex) and he explained everything to me, even though he loves her they're sex life is rubbish, so he just needs someone to fill in that part. I don't really want a lot of commitment and i know if he's not doing it with me he'll find someone else, but then i keep thinking about his wife in the back of my mind. Owww, what a mess, i just don't know what to do what would you do if you were me?

[lardhelmet]

I've been the other woman and the wife - and got hurt in both scenarios. Walk away

[CuteToni]

He's a pig, surely if he loved his wife they would sort out the sex life instead of having sex with relative strangers?

[joeluke]

A married man who tells his mistress that his sex life is rubbish?

Not that old chestnut again, it's just an excuse which means 'I do get it at home but as you're offering it to me as well I might as well have my cake and eat it'

I know this for a fact because I have used this excuse myself before.......and it works

[ooh-la-la]

oh my goodness!!!!! look at all these answers! it's crazy!
I've decided that I'm not gonna see him again, he is just a rude, selfish liar.
LOL!!! are you referring to my previous posts of wanting a gangster!!!!!?????/ he he! looks like i found one and it's not all it's cracked up to be.
Thank You all for your help and advice.
p.s can you honestly say that if you were horney and with a sexy young man or woman you wouldn't do anything!? ;-)

[joshuaty2010]

oh what a complicated life you have. Anyway, just follow your heart and not mind. Be old enough to think right and wrong.