invite to a party

[mollykins]

I've been invited to an 18th birthday party of someone in my sixth form should i go?

HOWEVER; it is at bar/club place, I dunno would my parents let me go . . . especially seeing as it is the weekend before three exams (biology, chemistry and maths!) and anyway the person whose party it is, is someone i'm not really that close to ( I sit on his table in chemistry) and i don't really talk to him outside of the lessons . . . .

your (sensible) thoughts, as always are welcome . . .

[Barmaid]

Do you want to go?

[Dris]

I dont go to any social occasion im not comfortable with ever.
You'll know yourself if youre comfortable enough to go or just be happy in the knowledge you were invited (which is a nice touch).

[mollykins]

I'm not sure, I would but there's jsut the niggling thought of the exams . . . but by then i should have all my revision finished. And there are people confirmed as going that I'm friends with.

[dotty.]

would you be allowed in?

[jd_1984]

Exam would take priority if it was me, given that you are not close friends anyway!

[mollykins]

I assume so, even though it's a bar/club, it's been booked by the two guys whose birthday it'll be (I know the one guy from chemistry and know of the other guy).

[sara3]

there's no point in worrying about it if your parents won't let you go. ask them, then decide.

you don't have to drink alcohol either.

[dotty.]

If they serve alcohol I doubt you will be allowed in the bar but they probably have booked a private function room

[mollykins]

They know I wouldn't get served anyway. Although i'm tall, I have quite a 'baby face'

[mollykins]

I assume that's what they've done dotty, and to save money, cos they've got many of the same friends, they've booked it jointly seeing as one of their birthdays is the friday and the other, the saturday . . . .

[Mamyalynne]

In this order, decide if you want to go, ask parents permission, then work from there.

[redcrx]

ah i remember 18th birthday parties. Go
lots of alcohol, naked men, music, dancing, size 6 mini skirts.

on second thoughts im not sure you could handle it

[starone]

You seem a sensible sort of girl Molly. You know what to stay away from. Make sure you have your phone with you in case you have to call for help (from your parents) and you should be O.K.

[mollykins]

http://www.google.co....1&ved=1t:429,r:10,s:0 BTW that's not me, jsut arandom pic from google

[mollykins]

That last psot was to you redcrx

[society]

How many parties are you invited to?

[mollykins]

Not many. This year i've been to my gay friends parties the most for; his birthday, end of exams/ school, exam results, halloween and bonfire night, and i'm going to his for a christmas aprty aswell, also i've been to; the school prom and 5 other birthday parties. Maybe that is quite a lot . . .

[Dris]

Jeez -yip Molly I can assure you your social life is better than mine :)