Am I Right To Be Feeling This Way?
Family Life0 min ago
Ex and best mate ???
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My soon to be ex husband ( we separated two years ago and now going through with a divorce ) has just told me that later this year he is off on a cruise. Quite simply because he has always wanted to and can't remember the last holiday he had. I can as it was the last one I had , our honeymoon.
Since we have been estranged i have been living on benefits as I am unable to work, I have a debilitating health condition, which causes great pain and my life is controlled by a degree to drug therapy.
We had our own house together which we sold when he was made redundant from a well paid job, so he could realise am ambition to manage his own business.
During the recession the business faltered and this did not help our relationship so I kind of feel it was a double whammy losing them both, then quite out of the blue, my best mate tells me she is accompanying my ex on the cruise. !!
I find it hard to make ends meet yet here are the two herberts that until recently were the closest people to me living the life of riley while I feel betrayed. .
Ok so here is the rub.......am I over reacting ? I can't help feeling pretty fed up right now
Since we have been estranged i have been living on benefits as I am unable to work, I have a debilitating health condition, which causes great pain and my life is controlled by a degree to drug therapy.
We had our own house together which we sold when he was made redundant from a well paid job, so he could realise am ambition to manage his own business.
During the recession the business faltered and this did not help our relationship so I kind of feel it was a double whammy losing them both, then quite out of the blue, my best mate tells me she is accompanying my ex on the cruise. !!
I find it hard to make ends meet yet here are the two herberts that until recently were the closest people to me living the life of riley while I feel betrayed. .
Ok so here is the rub.......am I over reacting ? I can't help feeling pretty fed up right now
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its rotten, but as said hes your ex so you dont get to choose who he sees or how he spends his money
she is your friend and should be a bit more tactful, but i guess you now see shes not who you thought she was
are they in love?
also your seem to mention quite a bit about how you are skint and seem to resent them having money - sorry but neither of them are responsible for your financial situation, and neither should they hide the fact that they have a few quid...they owe you nothing....so on that issue yes you are over reacting.
she is your friend and should be a bit more tactful, but i guess you now see shes not who you thought she was
are they in love?
also your seem to mention quite a bit about how you are skint and seem to resent them having money - sorry but neither of them are responsible for your financial situation, and neither should they hide the fact that they have a few quid...they owe you nothing....so on that issue yes you are over reacting.
