Ask your Mum to think again about HRT. Here we are in the 21st century and this marvelous medication is there to help. I was on it for 15 years Those flushes can be soul destroying. You feel awful most of the time, you don't want to go anywhere because you get embarassed in the summer its pure hell.
On HRT you feel alive, confident, comfortable,and that gloom mood changes to bright and breezy. Menopause? what menopause?
Its there for people like your mum & me, don't forget she's got years of suffering in front of her. Don't let her suffer. Go with her to the Docs Hollie.
Jem