Hi Lottie
I know the wisdomof what you say intellectually, and I know it to be true, but i still look in the mirror and sigh ...
i have been out with girls who are certainly plain physically, and one who used to make pubs go quiet when she walked in because mens' mouths were open with no sound coming out ...
and after a few weeks, you 'get used' to someone, no matter how gorgeous or plain they are - so it ceases to matter - it's personality that lasts.
I think my wife would agree - twenty-five years in August!!!!