should i have done this??

[littlemissx]

a while back i used to see a guy who lived about 100 miles away....i fell for this guy in a big way and was devestated when we split up. when i met him he had a few weeks before cancelled his wedding and it wasnt till we'd been together a few months he told me his ex fiance was actually his boss but that didnt bother me really at all. anyway i have just mailed him telling him that i am in his neck of the woods in a few weeks time to see lee evans and did he want to meet up for a drink to catch up for old times sake and say hi etc. i got an out of office reply saying he's not back till thursday but to contact his boss if the matter is urgent. now although it says this i am almost sure his boss/exfiance checks his emails when he is off.i now regret mailing him but obviously i cant take it back now. What do you all think???

[ineedahobby]

I dont really see a problem if she is his ex-fiancee and by the sounds of it your email wasnt incriminating anyway.  Try not to worry  :o)

[Jackson74]

Its a harmless friendly e-mail.  No one can have a prob. with that one!!

[jno]

you've done nothing wrong; his boss is presumably out of the picture. Are you afraid she may somehow delete your email before he gets back? It's possible, of course, depending on how their system works. Anyway, you know he's back on Thursday, so if you don't get a proper reply from him in, say, a week, you could always try ringing him and saying 'I sent you an email but I'm not sure if it got through, but do you want to...?'  But be prepared for the possibility that he wants nothing more to do with you, for whatever reason.

[littlemissx]

i dont think i could call him... i should have put a receipt on the email shouldnt have i

[Sasha13]

Do you use Outlook? If so, you can try to recall the message. Go into the message in sent items, and i think it's under 'tools'. It'll tell you if the message has been successfully deleted before being read or not.