Best thing to do....

[sarah-london]

I split with a guy I'd been dating for a few months recently. All ended as well as it could really. There have been no crossed words exchanged & it's just one of those things I guess :o(

Went to see him last night to collect shoes I had left at his. He dragged me out getting the shoes for days. Eventually went to get them & even though just for a few minutes it was still nice, well as nice it could be. We hugged each other & I told him to take care of himself. Now, here's the question. I woke up this morning feeling like I wanted to send a text....a kind of 'I loved spending time with you & I'll miss but please be happy' text.

Good idea? Bad idea? Can't decide!

[islasmum]

I think that it's nice that you split up amicably, and everything was still ok when you saw him yesterday, but I wouldn't send the text - you've ended the relationship, and I would think about drawing a line under it and explore pastures new, for both of your sakes.

[pa___ul3]

still think you should have given him a mouthful for saying that over text! ;)
I don't think it'd be a good idea to text him, if you're going to move on then best sever the contact as early as possible, I've found that out the hard way! You've said your friendly goodbye's in person and that's the best way to leave it I reckon.

[EvianBaby]

Bad idea.

And if he doesn't reply then it will make you feel even worse.

[Marijn]

Bad idea.
He'll wonder why you made contact again after last night, and jump to the wrong conclusion.
Or He'll see his got a text from you and get excited, and then when he reads it he'll be disappointed by the content.

[snags]

Bad idea. Move on...

[Hopkirk]

Terrible idea - unless you secretly want the relationship to start up again.