After suffering a really nasty water infection 15 months ago and being off work 10 weeks i have 'never been the same again' and have just about had enough! everything bothers, stresses or worries me. i get absolutely exhausted by about 6.00pm, i work 7 hours a day but by the time i get home and cook dinner i ache from head to toe and cannot physically keep my eyes open. i feel i rely on my husband more and more for things i should be doing. He seems to be depressed or something similar, he gave up smoking a few months ago after being what i would call a proper smoker for 40+ years. he is always complaining of being hard up and generally looking on the grim side of life - which is totally unnessecary, i think he is getting me down too. i hate my job due to changes over last little while (which i blame for my infection as i was so run down). Sorry ive gone on i just feel as though ive had enough of everything right now :-(
Stress is exhausting and when things aren't happy at home it's not a place we welcome to come back to. You could be lacking iron or magnesium so maybe a blood check would help. Any possibility of having a weekend away to see something new for you both? A change can be a great boost.