ARE YOU REALLY HAPPY?

[Georgiesmum]

Generally speaking, would you say you are happy?

[Sir Alec]

Buenchico, I always have a trusty glass of red beside me in the evenings.

[THEMOTLEY1]

Blimey, I'm sitting here with a glass of Red, does that make me a late-night PA as well?

[ummmm]

That's a shame Alec...

I know it's easy to say ignore but easier said than done.

[Sir Alec]

ummmm, unfortunately, I'm quite opinionated when I get going and it doesn't sit well with 'the majority' and the @rse-lickers on here!

[Mojo-Jo-Jo]

3 years ago I got cancer, got made redundant, my last surviving grandparent died and my relationship broke down.
A year later I was bald and kanckered, skint and fed up.
2 Years later I lost my home and everything I owned to pay the debts.
18 months ago I met my man.
3 months later I got offered a lovely maisonette in a gorgeous town
3 months after that I took the first job I was offered and it all went downhill from there.
Today I left that job and went for something new. Am I happy? Ecstatic as it goes!

[Mamyalynne]

MoJo - what can anyone say to that? Through the mill as we say here, how the human soul survives is unfathomable.

SirA - I am so sorry to read that you feel got at by some, I like to feel that we are friends.

My bubble has had a deflation just recently but I have tremendous back up and love and know I will get through it with help.

Mamya ♥

[ummmm]

That's what makes the site interesting, Alec :-)

Mojo....nice one.

[Mojo-Jo-Jo]

Thanks Mamalynne andd Ummmm. I feel like I've waited 3 years for this question :D

[Sir Alec]

Not interesting in my case, ummmm, just abusive.

[Mojo-Jo-Jo]

Smile Sir Alec. Remember, they only occupy the same 2ft square bit of space that you do. :)

[Sir Alec]

Their heads may occupy 2 square feet, but nothing else.

[Mojo-Jo-Jo]

Then they're not worth being unhappy about Sir Alec.
Some anonymous idiot on an internet forum is not worth your emotion.
The funny , gorgeous and witty ones *cough*, are worth paying loads of attention to however. ;)

[Sir Alec]

Ok mojo, but I never meet these people. The last time I left the house was the last time I took my dog for a walk, over a year ago.

[Mojo-Jo-Jo]

We're here Sir Alec. Read all of them, not just the nasty ones. :)

[THEMOTLEY1]

Like you Sir Alec I can be a bit too 'up front' for some people, but remember "you can't please all of the people all of the time" there's some good folks on this site and I'm sure none of them would want you to be unhappy, it's all too easy for some to hide behind a keyboard and not think about the affect their posts have on others, DON'T let 'em get to you.

[ummmm]

Also, take into account that how someone says something in their head and how it appears in print, can be completely different.