you are so normal me and my friends talk about this all the time some friends have it once a month which they think is fine me and my boyfreind have it once a week ,he,d like it more but were not machines ,and my boyfriend understands and excepts that,explain to your boyfreind that you love him to peices but your not always randy other wise buy some toys and experiment we get bored of the same routine so try something different oils massage dressing up etc. but whatever you do,dont think your not normal.