Birthday cards for family

[Smowball]

I'm the type of person whon always sends cards to people, even if I don't get one back - it's just the way I am. But what do you do if somebody has been really vile, and you know its their birthday very soon. Would you rise above it and send a card anyway, or would you deliberatley not send one this time?

[ummmm]

Good for you, smow x

[Smowball]

Thanks ummm x

Have decided that its just gone too far this time, he might be my son but I just can't excuse it this time. Don't know whether he will ever sort himself out but he has had more than enough chances.