Didn't mean to give the impression that I was super rich or thinking every man was a gold digger. When I divorced many, many years ago I made the decision to buy out my husband's half interest in the property as he did not want it. I have since retired and have a small company pension as well as my state pension. Far from in the "rich" bracket but comfortable. Last "gentleman" friend said he could sell his flat and move in with me?? However, all that being said I'm sure there are some really nice men out there and maybe I'll meet one one of these days.