The question contains a logical fallacy. If you draw the graph of fly distance vs time then it will be a hyperbolic type curve, with an assymptote at which the fly speed=0. If you draw a similar graph for the car it will not show the car doing more than slowing very slightly. The point is that although there is a point at which the first order differential for fly dx/dt (speed) is 0, this instant is a mathematical point, i.e. it is for an infinitely small time. This is basically calculus, rather than gross slope calculation. In other words the moment at which the fly is travelling at 0mph is only a notional moment, it has no duration.