Sheri. Sorry to hear that you are coping with this difficult problem. Moving house is extremely stressful especially with a baby and your husband suffering depression and anxiety. The latter disabilitiesare very hard to live with. However, this is a test of the strength of your commitment to your husband who at the moment needs your strength and mature emotional stability. I hope you are able to cope and have family and freidns to support you. It is not his fault although he may be selfish as many people are by nature. Remember when he was happy and carefree? Hopefully he was once. Some men cannot handle responsibility which comes along with marriage, chidren and keeping a roof over your heads. Is he receiving medical attention? Many people suffer from depression and anxiety but it does not make it any easier to be married to one of them. I hope your baby brings you joy and happiness especially when he/she and smiles and holds out his/her arms to you. This time of year is bad for people who feel low in spirit. Hope things take a turn for the better. He will respond more to loving words and gentleness than to complaining and criticism although I did not always practise what I preach when I was young. XXX