Khandro, as someone who needs to be reminded regularly to check his manners, good breeding is very clearly a subject rather beyond your area of expertise, so best not go there. As for your recommended reading, thank you, but having followed your advice previously, I’m sure you’ll understand why I’ll pass on this one.
Interesting though, that other men's words seem to influence you so greatly. On this thread alone we’ve had several examples from you. Young, Nietzsche, Aquinas, Vernon - and I don’t know if I’ve missed any but I’m sure I saw Confucius flailing around in there somewhere. It strikes me that your penchant for assuming that such examples somehow impress the reader, and hence, lend support to your argument, would make for a rather interesting psychological study, but that aside, ever thought of thinking for yourself? Once you get the hang of it, it can be wonderfully therapeutic, you know. ;o)