thanks guys it was never as dark as this in its life - but do need a good cutting too - I am always blonde but have to say if I could get used to it - there is a nice healthy shine of it - what will the neighbours say.
the only way to lighten it is to put a much lighter colour in, say extra light ash blonde which will lighten it without bleaching it. after that condition it and leave the conditioner in your hair, wrap a plastic bag over your hair-tie it to the front of your forehead or behind your head abd leave for 20 mins-you will feel your hair getting warmer as the conditioner is working its way in, then rinse.
Yes but if I were you I would rather either wait a week or so or even put one without ammonia...if you want to go for the ammonia-free option then take it as blonde as you can so it will stick :)
got my hair cut yesterday and believe it or not the colour is really lovely - natural looking and shiny being that bit darker. Think I will keep this way. Also the cut is lovely too. Different hairdresser - just done what I asked her - some hairdressers literally leave me baldy but she left me hair. Everybody admired it at my voluntary job last night and I also felt good too.