do you mean he has left your daughter's place without any word and just left her high and dry? If so then it is looking a distinct possibility. But he would need accomodation, that should leave a trail, also, what was his staus with your daughter ref their home? Don't let her get stuck with his half of any bills!
Difficult to say without more info tambo. Hopefully he's slung his hook. Be glad your daughter hasn't any children by him. Has he just taken off without a word and left her with his debts?
Hard to say, the ex and her kids should surely be able to sort out their own place but maybe he wants to see them settled and out of his hair. It's up to your girl to tell him to go, if he hasn't gone already, just tell her you are there for her if she needs to talk to you.
Has he given your daughter any explanation?
After being in a relationship for 4 years and then out of the blues just ups and disappear, something is not right.
No, but I would do whatever I possibly could to make sure my child has a roof over their head. I would expect the same from their father. I would also hope that my childrens father would be concerned about my emotional state after I went through a breakup.
As it happens my ex came over from Ireland when I split with my ex to make sure me and the children were okay. That's being a responsible and decent human being.
Tambo, that because they think you are meddling in their business. :)
But, as a mother you cannot help yourself. Parents always want what's they think is best for their children.