Obsession At The Start Of A Relationship

[Scarlett]

Have you experienced this? When you first got together with someone special (maybe your OH) did you need to see them constantly, think about them all the time, put them on a pedestal? And if so, when did you experience the "come down", if at all?!

[andy-hughes]

sqad - "although when andy-hughes sees this thread, he will pontificate..........."

How very wounding!

[andy-hughes]

I have had utter obsessions about people, and done myself a lot of damage with them over the years.

I am very lucky that when I met the present Mrs Hughes, I didn't feel that way - there was a great sense of security that has never abated, and that is something I never had before - and is a massive part of our relationship.

I am glad to be past the obsession phase now - I simply gaze at Veronica Vanoza on occasion and drink in the vision of her smoky green eyes, her black hair, her gorgeous fair skin, her full lips and aqualine nose, and her to-die-for body, and that is as 'obsessive' as I get these days!

Hope that wasn't 'pontificating' - I'm getting a complex now!

[Sqad]

andy.....;-)

That's what the "old dears" like and that's what you give them......nowt wrong in that.

[andy-hughes]

Sqad - now I am really curious! Who are the 'old dears'?

Careful!

[Sqad]

andy...LOL.....to me......any female ABer who posts on "Relationship &Dating" although i have to say, that members of the "clique" will post on "Chatterbank " to get maximum exposure and sympathy, mainly from the regulars.

No! no! andy....I am full of admiration..........always give the "punter" what they want.......success will be guaranteed.

[andy-hughes]

Thanks Sqad.

I did forget to caution the curious - Ms. Vanoza is a film star, and a Google search of her name may give inapropriate images, so please proceed with caution.

[Sqad]

LOL....LOL....Veronica Vanoza.........LOL

Just Googled it.

[andy-hughes]

Indeed trig, the proverbial 'whole nine yards'!