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What Are My Ex Boyfriends Feelings?
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ill make this as short as possible.
and this , believe it or not, is the short version of the story.
8 months ago i dated a guy and we were eachothers longest relationship. we were very in love. he broke up with me due to distance although we lived 45 minutes away and i saw him frequently. i still care about him.
He and i have gone through a lot of sh*t after the break up. he dated my best friend two hours after the break up (they broke up after a week). i felt betrayed so very immaturely, i went after his best friend, we also lasted a week. but my ex was very hurt by it and hated me for 7 months because of it.
he and his EX-friend have hated eachother for awhile and didnt talk so i figured that my ex wouldnt mind if i dated him, so i did. and my ex threatened to beat him up. Also, after he found out me and his ex friend were dating, i creeped on his fb and he posted a stauts saying "I love how the smallest things happen and im still hurt."
me and his friend broke up after about 2 months lol.
i went over to his house about a month ago because my friend lived with him and invited me over. he and i did not want to see eachother face to face because of the fact he hated me. it took some time, but i eventually texted him off my friends phone and apologized for everything. he wouldnt accept my apology so i just told him im gonna leave him alone and im done with everything. after i told him that he said "wait dont go. im sorry for everything". that meant a lot to me because he never apologizes and he never even apologized to his best friend of 5 years. so that meant something.
we got everthing sorted out and we were all good. after that i knew he still had feelings for me. i still didnt want to add him on fb so i didnt. but after a month i added him he finally accepted and liked everything of mine. i messaged him "Hi" we had a short conversation then he told me to text him. we texted i asked him to come turn up with me at our friends house he said hed love to, etc.
he likes all my statuses and pictures, and one night, after i got done texting him, i posted a status saying "i miss you :(" and he liked it. i also posted a status saying "lms if you want to go to prom with me" and he liked it, but i was too afraid to ask him. so i didnt ask him..
thing is, he shows all these signs of liking me and missing me, but hes married to a girl on facebook and likes all her stuff too, and shes prettier than me. so i get insecure and hurt and i dont know what to do cause when we hang out i feel like he is gonna try and make a sexual move on me and i dont want that. i am afraid of getting hurt again, but i miss him so much.
i dont know what to do . he always asks me to come hang out with him but i just dont know how he actually feels.
he'll always post depressing love statuses. but hes the one who broke up with me?? so im confused. he shows all the signs but hes confusing.
he'll text me for two days, then hell stop texting me randomly. then two days later, I'LL be the one who says "hi" and stuff.
what is he feeling?
does he want me back?
does he regret breaking up with me?
is he still in love with me?
i just need answers cause hes really confusing.
and this , believe it or not, is the short version of the story.
8 months ago i dated a guy and we were eachothers longest relationship. we were very in love. he broke up with me due to distance although we lived 45 minutes away and i saw him frequently. i still care about him.
He and i have gone through a lot of sh*t after the break up. he dated my best friend two hours after the break up (they broke up after a week). i felt betrayed so very immaturely, i went after his best friend, we also lasted a week. but my ex was very hurt by it and hated me for 7 months because of it.
he and his EX-friend have hated eachother for awhile and didnt talk so i figured that my ex wouldnt mind if i dated him, so i did. and my ex threatened to beat him up. Also, after he found out me and his ex friend were dating, i creeped on his fb and he posted a stauts saying "I love how the smallest things happen and im still hurt."
me and his friend broke up after about 2 months lol.
i went over to his house about a month ago because my friend lived with him and invited me over. he and i did not want to see eachother face to face because of the fact he hated me. it took some time, but i eventually texted him off my friends phone and apologized for everything. he wouldnt accept my apology so i just told him im gonna leave him alone and im done with everything. after i told him that he said "wait dont go. im sorry for everything". that meant a lot to me because he never apologizes and he never even apologized to his best friend of 5 years. so that meant something.
we got everthing sorted out and we were all good. after that i knew he still had feelings for me. i still didnt want to add him on fb so i didnt. but after a month i added him he finally accepted and liked everything of mine. i messaged him "Hi" we had a short conversation then he told me to text him. we texted i asked him to come turn up with me at our friends house he said hed love to, etc.
he likes all my statuses and pictures, and one night, after i got done texting him, i posted a status saying "i miss you :(" and he liked it. i also posted a status saying "lms if you want to go to prom with me" and he liked it, but i was too afraid to ask him. so i didnt ask him..
thing is, he shows all these signs of liking me and missing me, but hes married to a girl on facebook and likes all her stuff too, and shes prettier than me. so i get insecure and hurt and i dont know what to do cause when we hang out i feel like he is gonna try and make a sexual move on me and i dont want that. i am afraid of getting hurt again, but i miss him so much.
i dont know what to do . he always asks me to come hang out with him but i just dont know how he actually feels.
he'll always post depressing love statuses. but hes the one who broke up with me?? so im confused. he shows all the signs but hes confusing.
he'll text me for two days, then hell stop texting me randomly. then two days later, I'LL be the one who says "hi" and stuff.
what is he feeling?
does he want me back?
does he regret breaking up with me?
is he still in love with me?
i just need answers cause hes really confusing.
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Ok, first of all nobody other than your Ex can tell you how he really feels. And even that may be asking a lot.
There seems to have been quite a lot of mind games, revenge and hurt in this situation. Even if you do get back together will either of you ever really get over the fact that the other dated a friend?
Move on, find someone new.
There seems to have been quite a lot of mind games, revenge and hurt in this situation. Even if you do get back together will either of you ever really get over the fact that the other dated a friend?
Move on, find someone new.
You are clearly an early teen and you're learning about relationships.
The most important thing to learn is that trying to work out what is going on int he head of your partner is a quick road to madness. Make a conscious decision about what you want and hold on firmly to your self respect and upper hand.
The most important thing to learn is that trying to work out what is going on int he head of your partner is a quick road to madness. Make a conscious decision about what you want and hold on firmly to your self respect and upper hand.
How on earth can we know how he feels? If you don't and you've been close to him how do you expect strangers to know what is going on. IMO if anyone breaks up with another person and if as you say two hours later he's 'at it' with your friend then why would you even consider what he feels when he's done that sort of thing? Move on, find someone else that you can trust and enjoy their company...life is too short to dwell on what could have been, just get on with it and find a person you are happy with and vice versa!
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