Divorce
My sister is in her 40's, and has been married for 22 years, and has three children, who are 21,19, and 16. The youngest is about to leave school, and the other two are unemployed currently. Her husband is never respectful to the children, but wants their respect for him. He speaks to them with not much respect, he doesn't listen when they speak to him, as his laptop, xbox, TV or his phone have his complete attention. He shows his wife absolutely no attention unless they're in the bedroom and he thinks his luck is in. Last weekend was their 22nd wedding anniversary, and not once did he utter the words I Love You to his wife. She had said saturday night in the bedroom was going to be their special time, and he immediately asked her if he could take photos of her naked. He has asked this several times, and she has agreed, even though she isn't comfortable. He is the same age as her. He has accused her of cheating, after snooping through all her personal possessions, i.e. handbag, diary, etc, and finding nothing, but still has accused her. She decided to go through his personal possessions, and accessed his laptop, and found he has been looking for dogging sites, escorting sites, and asking questions to google all to do with sex. She now wants to divorce him, but doesn't know her first step. Does she just pack her things, and go and stay somewhere else, or does she stay in the house where they all live, until she gets a house for her and the children. Can I please have advice, so I can help her to make the first move towards freedom from this unloving male.