relationships

[dmaxxx]

i love a girl but she keeps telling lies and has been unfaithfull to me and many times in previous relationships,her x told me she was bad news,everyone told me shes bad news but i still love her,can girls like this ever change,and what is the best way to move on? help meeeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!!

[rocascool]

Oh dma, I met a woman13 yrs ago, after 5 yrs she had an affair, then another 3 yrs later then a 3rd 2 yrs later. I loved her so much but she would never change and so we split 3 yrs ago. It was really tough at first but got easier after a while. In the last 3 yrs, she has been single but has had at least 4 other affairs, all with married men!!! As I said, she will never be faithful but also, never happy. I've made a new life now and am very hapy (but still single)

[helsbels666]

no not unless she gets help to find out why she feels the need to do this......

[DMA]

I hope nobody mistakes you for me....


Dump her...Ive seen her type b4...got the teashirt.....a bird has got to be honest...its us blokes that are complete twarts....there are about 300m women in the world who think we are all b*stards who lie and cheat...find yourself one of those women coz they will never cheat on you coz they will be so happy to be in a relationship which is genuine & truthful.... leave the beetch to all the b*stards...they deserve each other.

[lia*]

as the saying goes, love is blind. you don't need problems. most people run from them. do leopards change their spots?
are you in love with this girl, is it truly love? after hearing all those negetative things about her, what makes you think she would not cheat on you also. you are not thinking with the right head. i bet you are young and having a good time experimenting with sex. i hope you make the right choice.

[Hannie29]

dma....what is it that makes you love her so much? I work as a behavioural therapist, and in my experience people who can 'look past' things like lies and infidelity in a relationship have something very strong keeping them with that person. What is it about her? It might not even be about her specifically......do you stay with her because you don't want to be on your own?

It's awful to feel the way you're feeling at the moment - you must feel so torn, but at least you recognise that you're potentially in a very soul destroying sort of relationship - otherwise you wouldn't have posted something asking for help. All the behavioural analysis aside - use the 'fridge' method: if it looks bad and it smells bad, it probably is.

[jimboy2]

what you need to do is toughen up mate, this is coming from my experience but when a girl is the dominant one in the relationship and she knows she can get away with it then she will, what you need to do is act like she isnt the one for you and she come running back to you! finish it with her