I Need Relationship Help!!!

[tristen]

my girlfriend and i spent some time together and i wont go into detail but it ended up with me getting grounded my family doesn't like her but i have loved her for a while now i even went to the extreme of waiting for her to notice me and after we start dating my x girlfriend tells her i have been sending the same cutesy messages and stuff so now she doesn't want anything to do with me im not sure if im the bad guy here i mean all i did was send cute pics of like coupes and stuff but i know for a fact my x girlfriend wanted me back and even asked me to brake up with her so i could get back with her i did what i should and i declined because that would have been horrible to just brake up with her yet i still get screwed over because my girlfriend found out i should also point out that im grounded from talking to her on Facebook and everything to i cant even save my relationship please help me figure out how im going to fix this or if i can even fix it

[grasscarp]

Your parents seem to be in charge of your computer access and have also grounded you. Wait until you are a bit older and have the freedom to talk to and go out with your friends.

[murraymints]

I'd say , just get over it...stop posting life's detail on Facebook...you sound much too young to be talking of serious relationships..just enjoy life and youth while you have it..the rest will follow when you are older !

[chanel5]

I can understand why you have been told to wait until you are older and better able to handle relationships with more freedom. That kind of freedom will indeed come with maturity. But I think what you need to do now is to show your parents that you can be mature. They are probably expecting you to try to go against their instructions about contacting these two girls, and will be watching you closely, so try to let them see that you are being mature about it and are respecting their wishes. That way, they may relax their control a little bit and allow you some more freedom. It will be difficult, because I understand that you want to see and be in touch with your girlfriend, but for the moment you have to work at getting your parents back on your side. It will not always be like this, but for the moment you are under their control and they are worried that you are going to get involved with this girl in a way that will affect the rest of your life, so try to go along with their wishes for the time being. It will not be easy, I know. I have been in your situation and of course I did all the wrong things, but I hope you will be able to do the right things and life will get easier a lot more quickly. You have the friendship and sympathy of the people on here and I hope that helps. Good luck.

[maggiebee]

14 line post without any punctuation is very hard to read. This makes me think you are a young person. Plenty of time for relationships in the future. Maybe you should consider just having a wide circle of friends and having fun for now.

[Canary42]

Life's a bitch, and then you die. Get used to it.

[Prudie]

Did you send cute pictures of coupes or couples? Could make a difference.

[tristen]

it was couples and im 17 im in 12th grade too so i figure i have some maturity and sorry about my crappy typing skills that's all my fault my parents are just being assholes and still think they can control me it would help if i didn't sound like i only talk to her on Facebook but they grounded me from it because that's the only way i can talk to her after my phone broke a few days ago