Why Does He Like To Stares And Smile At Me A Lot?

[Sloaneyurotic]

So I met this guy online, and my intention is pure hook up.
We have been sleeping regularly for about three weeks now.
He always stay over at my place, even though he has to go to work the next morning, and he even let me stay over at his place (again, even though he has to go to work the next morning).
He likes to cuddle, before and after sex.
When we sleep, he always draw me closer to him, whether he spoons me or me facing him.
The activities we do is not limited in the bedroom only, we go out in public to.
All I wanted was a simple hook up. The classic wham bam thank you ma'am. No fuss no muss.
And now I have to deal with all this cuddling thing, and lately what bothers me the most is (I've never realized this before) that he likes to stare at me ALOT.
especially when we are on bed (not having sex). And he also smiles whilst he stares at me.
so he smiles and stares at me a lot.
it's not that creepy smile. it's the cute smile.

my point is:
do guys take their hook up partner out (drinking, go to cinema, etc etc), cuddle before&after sex, and stare&smile at the same time at them?
does he even know that all i want is a hook up and hook up only?
thanks x

[pixie373]

I think, as others have said, you need to gently make it clear to him what you do and don't want. That means a conversation and not "not texting first" and other mind games.

[RATTER15]

So what you are saying is you want to be treated like a prostitute, but free?

sh@g me and leave.

[Sqad]

RATTER.....LOL......some women prefer that sort of relationship.......more so now in our "modern times."

[Booldawg]

*googles 'Tinder'*

[andy-hughes]

"Should I just say no the next time he ask me out?
and say: 'just come over and do me', instead?"

Who says rommance is dead!

[Sqad]

andy....LOL ^^^^^

[RATTER15]

Put him on a time limit to be in and out! In and out of the house I mean!

Tell him: get your butt over here, you have 10 mins to service me and then I want you gone.

[RATTER15]

You could also plan ahead with a few diagrams of different positions you would like, saves wasting time!