I'm sure you will say the right thing at the time gness. An old friend of OH. Phoned yesterday to say his cancer has come back big time. He has been suffering for year with prostate, now he has it in liver and bowel. He will not have anymore treatment as he had had enough over the last 5 years. He isn't saying how long he has. His wife had pancreatic cancer and died six weeks after diagnosis.
Life's a *** sometimes.